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Penis Size Myths and Lies

A list of the most common penis size myths and lies used to comfort the penis-size-challenged man. Note that many of these myths have been invented by lesser endowed men themselves as a way to overcome their insecurities.

1. If a small finger can make her climax, then penis size is obviously of no importance.
2. The size of the flaccid penis doesn't indicate the size of the erection.
3. The erection is the great equalizer.
4. Some men are growers, others are showers, once hard they are all the same.
5. Forget the size issue, the most important sex organ is the brain!
6. You are ok if you are between 4" and 7" long.
7. The clitoris is outside, the g-spot is two inch inside, so as long as you have two inches length you are fine.
8. A vagina has no pleasure nerves deeper than two inches inside.
9. Women can't feel the difference between a long and a short penis.
10. If women like a big penis it is only for psychological reasons.
11. There is no such thing as a vaginal orgasm or uterine orgasm.
12. Women appreciate oral sex more than penetration.
13. Women want a man who is charming, loving and intelligent, they don't care about penis size.
14. Men who worry about their penis size are immature and unbalanced.
15. Men with a big penis are lousy lovers.
16. Men with a big penis don't get hard erections and women prefer to be penetrated by a hard small penis than by a soft big one.
17. Penises eight inches long are very rare and penises nine inch long are almost non-existent.
18. Penises six inches around are very rare and penises seven inch around are almost non-existent.
19. Very huge penises like twelve inch long and nine inch around exist only in fantasies since a man would pass out from losing blood from the brain.
20. The depth of a normal vagina is six inches, so any penis longer than that usually causes pain.
21. Good sex has very little to do with penetration, but everything with foreplay and intimate touching.
22. Men with a big penis don't know anything about foreplay, which is more important than penetration.
23. Women prefer sensuality and intimacy above raw sex.
24. Women who care about size are sluts.
25. Women who enjoy big penises have a loose vagina.
26. A woman's vagina is a virtual space and will adapt to any size penis and therefore she receives the same pleasure regardless the size of the penis.
27. A man with a large penis who has no clue to please a woman is useless as a lover.
28. You were given the size you have for a reason, be happy with what you have.
29. When women talk about their preference for big penises, they only do so because it gives them some power over men, knowing how sensitive the issue is to them.
30. Men with big penises don't last as long in bed as smaller endowed men.
31. It's a male thing only, a locker room thing.
32. The big penises you see in porn movies are fake.
33. The penis size issue is just as silly as the breast size issue. Do you really believe a woman with big breasts is a better lover!
34. The proof that penis size is not important is that it doesn't even appear on the list of ten most important qualities looked for in a man.
35. Some smaller endowed men believe size is not important since "they never had a complaint..."

1. If a small finger can make her climax, then penis size is obviously of no importance.
   This warped believe needs a little more attention since it is quickly becoming the main defense for those who claim that penis size is irrelevant for vaginal pleasure. It is confusing to many men because they all have experienced how women can climax by just the use of even one finger. So, a penis is ok as long as it is as big as a finger right? Complete nonsense. Many psychologist, sex therapist and so called experts use this gross untruth in a sickening attempt to give the small endowed man temporary relief from his agonizing problems. They forget to mention that the reason a woman can climax with the use of a small finger is because a finger has muscles and two ninety-degree joints in it and you have complete control over it. You move, slide, bend, swirl, thump, palpitate, shake, flick and tickle it like you could never do with a penis and this at any speed you want. The only thing your penis can do is slide in and out at slightly different speeds, at different angles and using less or more pressure against the walls. This is exactly why larger penises cause more fun since at least they reach more places and more spots at the same time. They also have a longer stroke, meaning that a woman's sensitive spots receive more and longer lasting pleasure on the same stroke. Therefore, a longer penis can cause more variety in sensations since the length of stroke is adjustable. A penis the length of a finger can never cause these pleasures. As far as thickness is concerned, by using a small finger you can simulate the pressure sensations from a thick penis by quickly pressing and moving it all around the walls of the vagina opening. You can do dozens of different things with that little finger to make her climax that you could never do with a penis, no matter its size. However, most women agree that the feeling of being penetrated by an average to large penis is always qualitatively superior to the stimulation received from a finger, even if such penetration at times doesn't cause orgasm.
   
   
2. The size of the flaccid penis doesn't indicate the size of the erection.
3. The erection is the great equalizer.
4. Some men are growers, others are showers, once hard they are all the same.
   These three lies cover the same issue. They are created to give hope to smaller endowed men so they can believe that the competition with larger flaccid penises doesn't have bigger erect penises. Although there are always exceptions, small flaccid penises will be small when erect and large flaccid penises will be large when erect. The "great equalizer" has become such a popular myth that it deserves a special paragraph to explain the truth behind it (see next page Flaccid Penis Size versus Erection).
   
   
5. Forget the size issue, the most important sex organ is the brain!
   Yes, the most important sex organ is the brain since that's where all the pleasure is processed and experienced. That counts especially for women's pleasure caused by bigger penises!
   
   
6. You are ok if you are between 4" and 7" long.
   This is a cheap line because they try to make you believe that within this range you will satisfy a woman. All they are saying is that you are ok because there are many of these penises around.
   
   
7. The clitoris is outside, the g-spot is two inch inside, so as long as you have two inches length you are fine.
8. A vagina has no pleasure nerves deeper than two inches inside.
9. Women can't feel the difference between a long and a short penis.
   These three lies are the creation of those who probably don't have more than two inches themselves, otherwise they would have noticed how women react upon deep stimulation of the vagina. Even if it was true that a vagina feels nothing past the first two inches, longer would still be better because the way your penis stimulates those first two inches of tissue by friction and pressure while sliding over it. The longer your penis is, the longer your stroke, the longer the stimulation of those first two inches.
   
   
10. If women like a big penis it is only for psychological reasons.
    This myth was invented by some sex therapists who are probably hung like hamsters and who are really talking to themselves. It insults women's sexuality and confuses the smaller endowed men who deep inside know probably better than that.
    
    
11. There is no such thing as a vaginal orgasm or uterine orgasm.
    Again, people who say this have never caused one either. I cover this topic extensively on page 21, Some Believe Vaginal Orgasm Is A Myth.
    
    
12. Women appreciate oral sex more than penetration.
    Once more, experts who tell you this lie probably have a tiny penis themselves because a woman will usually prefer to have her clitoris licked than being penetrated by a small penis. Some women do have a true preference for oral sex however, regardless the size of the penis, but often it might be because there is something wrong with them either physically or mentally. It is comparable to a man preferring to have only the tip of his penis nibbled instead of enjoying the immersing feelings of dipping his shaft in a warm and moist vagina.
    
    
13. Women want a man who is charming, loving and intelligent, they don't care about penis size.
    This is a perfect example of how people use a well known fact and then extrapolate a lie out of it. Sure, women want a charming man, but that has nothing to do with the way their vagina senses stimulation. Saying this is insulting to women because it makes them look like they can't enjoy sex as men can.
    
    
14. Men who worry about their penis size are immature and unbalanced.
    As explained on page 3 Why Do Men Obsess About Penis Size?, it is in a man's nature to worry about it. Maybe they could stop worrying if people stop telling them lies, so they would know at least where they stand.
    
    
15. Men with a big penis are lousy lovers.
    Whatever it takes to make the smaller guy feel better. Who knows, well-endowed men might even have better technique just because they often have more experience with different women. But it is silly to try figure out who has better technique. If a man is sexually intelligent then he usually has good technique, whatever his size.
    
    
16. Men with a big penis don't get hard erections and women prefer to be penetrated by a hard small penis than by a soft big one.
    This lie is popular among some medical therapists as well as among women comforting their small-endowed partners. There is no good reason why a big penis should get less hard than a small one. The only truth is that it takes a big penis longer to get hard. A small one can probably reach maximum expansion with a few heart pumps whereas a big one might need quite a bit more.
    
    
17. Penises eight inches long are very rare and penises nine inch long are almost non-existent.
    If they are so rare then why is it that most women have seen even longer than that, knowing that the average woman has slept with about 35 to 40 men by the age of 30.
    
    
18. Penises six inches around are very rare and penises seven inch around are almost non-existent.
    These lies are mostly used by women to boost their boyfriends' moral and to stop their worries about their average girth penis. Again, if you are average or below average in girth, there is a good chance that much thicker penises than that have invaded your girlfriend.
    
    
19. Very huge penises like twelve inch long and nine inch around exist only in fantasies since a man would pass out from losing blood from the brain.
    This myth is popular among small-endowed guys. However, they do exist and it is not unlikely that a girl has seen one already if she has had more than one hundred sexual partners.
    
    
20. The depth of a normal vagina is six inches, so any penis longer than that usually causes pain.
    Not true, when a vagina reaches its expanded state during maximum excitement it often reaches seven to eight inches deep. On top of that, the walls are quite stretchable and many women can accommodate ten or more inches in length.
    
    
21. Good sex has very little to do with penetration, but everything with foreplay and intimate touching.
    Try telling that to a girl you've been touching intimately for an hour. She will be very frustrated if you don't penetrate her.
    
    
22. Men with a big penis don't know anything about foreplay, which is more important than penetration.
    This goes along the previous line. Most women agree that both are equally important. To say that hung guys don't know anything about foreplay is silly. To say that foreplay is more important than penetration is ignorant. Sometimes a woman cares more about foreplay, other times she wants you to cut out the boring stuff and begs you to get on with the real thing.
    
    
23. Women prefer sensuality and intimacy above raw sex.
    Yes women like intimacy. However, when they want sex, they want sex and then they won't care about cuddling and snuggling up, but want to feel heavy stimulation on the inside. Some women can get quite verbal and direct during intercourse and are not shy to demand heavy thrusting.
    
    
24. Women who care about size are sluts.
    Women who care about size are the ones who are honest and have the guts to admit they like sex a lot.
    
    
25. Women who enjoy big penises have a loose vagina.
    This is one of the most heard lies you can come around and is made up by some smaller endowed guys to justify their incompetence in making women orgasm by penetration alone. Sure, a woman who has a very loose vagina will need a very big penis to be really satisfied, but it is not because some woman likes penetration by a big penis that she automatically has a loose vagina. Most vaginas can take a penis of eight inches circumference as long as the woman is able to let her vagina muscles relax.
    
    
26. A woman's vagina is a virtual space and will adapt to any size penis and therefore she receives the same pleasure regardless the size of the penis.
    It is true that most vaginas can contract around even the smallest penis, but the more it has to contract, the less pleasure it will receive. The more it can relax, the more pleasure it gets. Friction and pressure to the nerves inside the vagina wall create pleasure. Many women are very responsive to high pressure and stretching of these walls.
    
    
27. A man with a large penis who has no clue to please a woman is useless as a lover.
    It is a silly remark because if this same man would have a small penis he would be considered even more useless as a lover. Any woman saying this to appease smaller endowed men are actually creating the opposite effect on them. Having to choose between a small endowed and a well endowed man, both without a clue to please her, she would gladly choose for the big penis guy.
    
    
28. You were given the size you have for a reason, be happy with what you have.
    Another favorite line among certain sex therapists. It is like telling somebody who was born poor that he should be happy with what he has. Sure, if you have a small penis you have to live with it, don't let it destroy your life. That doesn't mean you have to be all happy about it and start jumping with joy about how small your penis is.
    
    
29. When women talk about their preference for big penises, they only do so because it gives them some power over men, knowing how sensitive the issue is to them.
    Some people like to say this because they know men might accept it as true, since the concept of women trying to overpower men sounds believable. Men know how women sometimes enjoy having power over them and that they do abuse the penis size issue to have an edge. However, it is not the reason why women care about big penises.
    
    
30. Men with big penises don't last as long in bed as smaller endowed men.
    Complete nonsense, bigger size has nothing to do with less stamina. Many women confirm that bigger penises often take longer to climax.
    
    
31. It's a male thing only, a locker room thing.
    Although men might be more obsessed by it, women are the ones who care about it the most, since they are the ones being penetrated after all.
    
    
32. The big penises you see in porn movies are fake.
    Women and experts alike will tell you this lie so you won't believe big penises exist. Yes, the truly enormous penises like eighteen inch long are fake. Some of the smaller ones are fake as well, but just because it allows sleazy porn makers to film amazing two minute lasting ejaculations by pumping fake semen through them. Nevertheless, many of the big dongs you see in porn are real. Why go through the hassle of faking them if there are plenty of guys who are hugely equipped. Besides, most men feel insulted of being taken for a fool with a lie like this, since anyone can quite easily distinguish between the real and the fake ones.
    
    
33. The penis size issue is just as silly as the breast size issue. Do you really believe a woman with big breasts is a better lover!
    Another trick to make the smaller endowed men believe that their worries are unfounded. It almost works for many of them because they think, "Hey, although I like big breasts, they are really not that important at all". Don't forget that breasts are not responsible for the sensations your penis is getting during intercourse. Your penis however is responsible for her vaginal sensations. The breast versus penis comparison is discussed in great detail earlier on.
    
    
34. The proof that penis size is not important is that it doesn't even appear on the list of ten most important qualities looked for in a man.
    Surveys show that penis size is not even on the top ten list of most important qualities looked for in a man. So what? Experts claim that this means women don't really care about size but of course that is a dumb conclusion. Just ask a man to think about a woman: he will think sex. So his top ten list will include things like big breasts, nice butt, good in bed, etc. Ask a woman to think about a man. She will think security. Only when in heat she will think sex. When women were asked to think of the most desired qualities in men, most of them were not horny. In a neutral environment, they will associate a man with feelings of security and comfort. Therefore, the top ten qualities will reveal little of how they want their men to be sexually. At the most, they will state "good in bed". Actually, they initially care more about his financial status than about his sexual capacities. Being a good kisser and dancer is also more important than being hung. Now take this same woman and put her in bed with a man she just spent a great evening with. Do you still believe she cares so much about the way he kisses? At this point she is just as sexually excited as the guy is and she doesn't care that much anymore about his other qualities. Her vagina is extremely sensitive and needs to be penetrated and filled, just as the guy's penis needs to be engulfed tightly.
    
    
35. Some smaller endowed men believe size is not important since "they never had a complaint..."
    It's not because a woman doesn't complain to you that she is happy with your size. It takes a bitch to flatly tell a man his penis is too small. Instead, most girls won't complain to you but will tell their future boyfriends about it. I had several girlfriends who told me stories about how they had slept with guys with penises so small that "she couldn't feel anything" or that "he lost his condom inside me" or that "he was so thin he felt like a wet noodle!" They all had felt embarrassed for their man but had pretended to enjoy the sex. Only one girl confessed to me that she literally screamed out-loud the first time her hand grabbed the terribly small penis of another guy she dated. She told me she called him a freak and ran away and that "he probably never dared to be with another girl again, hahaha".

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