Why
Do Men Obsess About Penis Size?
Men who obsess about penis size must be...
- immature...
- emotionally unstable...
- gay...!
...FALSE!
Men
obsess about penis size for one simple reason:
...they do so because
penis size does matter to women!
Men obsess about their
penis size because instinctively they know penis size matters to women.
It is as simple as that. (The fact that penis size
matters is explained throughout the rest of this document, just
accept it for now.)
Consequently
it is no surprise that all men, except maybe those who are
extremely well endowed, will at least at one point in their life
worry about the size of their penis. All men want at least one inch more. Like Bob, a 28 year old car mechanic, says:
"I
am not good looking, I am overweight and unfit and I admit that I am
not such a fun person to be around with. None of that bothers me
much though, the only real worry I have is my penis.
It's eight-inch long and just below six around , which is okay, but I
wish it could just be a little thicker."
People
like these show the level of obsession this issue is reaching. If
this guy worries about his size then imagine how the so many smaller
men out there feel! There are other things about a man that matter probably
even more to
women than his penis size, but hardly anybody will get that
preoccupied with it. Are their
worries justified? They often are. Later on we will go into the
nitty-gritty to find out which sizes are adequate (see page 37, OK, Women Want Big Penises, But HOW Big?)
Men Want To Please All Women
Men love
sex, it is the best thing in the world and they know
that women love it just as much. A man wants to know if he pleases
his woman. He wants to feel adequate and virile for her. If she says
he pleases her, he wants to know if he pleases her the most she
could ever be pleased, because he worries that the competition might
please her even more.
This instinct is so deep-seated that even those men
who are perfectly happy with that one special woman, will always want
to be sure that they are still competitive. Because of
women's natural tendency to be promiscuous, a man unconsciously
worries that one day he might lose her to a more virile competitor.
Of course, a man is by nature even more promiscuous than a woman, which
creates an instinctive need to be able to pleasure all
women,
not just the one he is dating.
John, a 40-year-old bank employee,
describes it as follows:
"I have all I could ever want in life;
job, money, married to and in love with a great woman. Our sex is
great. I am rather small down there but so is she and I fit tight
like a spark plug. I just want to know that I can satisfy other
women out there. Although I have no intention to ever
cheat on my wife, I really worry about that."
Cynthia, a stripper from
Toronto, talked about her boyfriend:
"He
keeps on worrying about his penis. It is thick but not
long. I tell him that it is big enough for me but he still
worries. My doctor says I have a rather short vagina. So of course
he is long enough for me. What is he worrying about!?"
...Sorry
girl, he isn't worried about not satisfying you,
...he
is worried about
not satisfying the
other women.
Next,
Five big reasons why women prefer a large penis.
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