Why Women Lie About
The Importance Of Penis Size
All men want to know if their penis is adequate to satisfy a
woman. But who do you ask, your girlfriend, your wife? It is a fact that
no woman will ever tell her partner the truth about his penis size
(unless
he is very well endowed of course) and this for various reasons.
- First of all, if a woman is interested in a man with
a small penis (for other reasons than his penis of course) she wants
to be nice to him and will try to flatter him. Obviously that won't
work if she tells him in all honesty that his penis is a little
undersized. A man whose penis is average or small wants to
know how women consider his size, but he doesn't want to hear it
from his partner.
- However, there is a more
deeply grounded reason why women hide
their preference for large penises. For the longest time women's
sexuality was something that could never be discussed in public.
While it is ok for men to talk openly about their sexual lust, women
are trained to hide it. A woman who admits to men that she likes a
big penis, is often viewed as a slut and men usually don't
consider a slut as a potential long-term partner.
Therefore
honesty is for
most women not an option when talking openly about penis size. The
Internet however has provided women with a way to speak anonymously
as well. Many can now finally state their preference for larger
sizes and penis forums are full of comments from women who air their
desire for big penises. But despite the anonymity of the Internet,
some women still can't let go their habits of feeling the need to
please men's egos and they continue to argue that size doesn't
matter.
Internet Survey
I found an
internet survey in which women were asked to post
their opinion about the size issue. (Sadly the comments are not on
the site anymore.) Many women flatly answer that penis size is important and their comments are pretty much all the same: "Longer is good, thicker is
better, longer and thicker is best."
But
there are other women who try to be nice by
saying that penis size doesn't matter. It is entertaining to see how in
their attempt to explain the insignificance of penis size, they
involuntarily demonstrate their underlying desire for larger penises
as well. Check out their remarks (followed by my
comments):
-
Ms.Sholinar
"The turn on and turn off is in the mind. Some
of the worst people in the world could be well equipped but I
for one WOULDN'T want to have sex with any of these people."
This woman obviously prefers a large penis above a
small one. For her to not have sex with a well-equipped man he
would almost have to be among the worst people in the world.
Way to go girl! Her comment is similar to the statement I
heard from another girl who says that she would make love to
Tom Cruise even if he had only a two inch long penis. These are just
attempts to confuse men because they
mix-up different issues. Men don't ask women if good looks or
nice personalities are preferred to big penises but if big
penises are preferred to small penises.
- Tg9:
"A man with large genitalia who has no clue,
nor desire, to please a woman is nowhere as a lover. A man who
is sensual and eager to please is a fantastic lover and his
penis size is of no consequence."
There they go again, insinuating that well endowed
men can't be sensual and have no desire to please a woman and
small guys are all sensual loving people. Say it like it is
girl,
you want a big penis on a sensual and caring
guy.
- PrincessButtercup:
"Although size has its benefits, technique is
far more important! What's the use of having a big worm if you
don't know how to fish?"
Another one trying to make the smaller guys feel
better, again by insinuating that endowed men don't know how
to use their penis. At least she is honest enough to admit
that size has its benefits.
-
Dassa:
"The size of the penis doesn't matter. Women
usually get the most pleasure from other sources than the
actual penetration. If the penis is too big, it can cause
major problems and if it is too small, other techniques can be
used. The bigger penis is more of a hassle."
This woman first tries to pretend that size doesn't
matter but then betrays herself by mentioning the words "too
small". If size really didn't matter then a penis would
never be too small. Just be honest about your preference lady
and don't feel so guilty about enjoying penetration that much.
- Skperry: "It's not the size, but pencil-thin ones
aren't able to do much for me. Over all, I prefer them thicker
rather than longer. But my biggest climax begins in my head,
so it isn't totally the penis on which I rely."
"It's not the size… but I prefer them
thicker..." Enough said.
- Sandstar: "Give me technique!!! Of course, utopia would
be big-size AND big-talent! Don't forget, though, that great
sex begins in the brain. How you feel about someone is the key
to it all."
First she screams technique, but quickly gives
away that big size is equally important. Then she tries to
make the smaller men feel better by mentioning how important
it is for a woman to feel for the guy to enjoy sex,
changing
the subject from vaginal to emotional satisfaction.
- Cat_Eyes:
"No, it doesn't really matter, but it can
still be important in some ways. A man can be too large for a
woman so as to cause pain, or he could be too small for a
woman and therefore make it less enjoyable to her."
This silly girl confirms unknowingly that when a woman
says, "it doesn't really matter", it really does
matter.
- Nancy_S:
"The best wigglers win! I'm more oral anyway,
and prefer a "medium" size. Guys, quit being so
obsessed over size, if you have a great technique and tongue,
the girls will not care... until someone with a better
technique comes along!"
This girl tops them all. First she pretends that
technique (best wigglers) is the important thing. But she
admits to be more oral and still prefers a medium size
over a small one, hereby foolishly confirming that size is
important to all women, even the oral ones. If an oral
girl prefers medium size, a vaginal girl prefers …? That's
right, you
guessed it. And there are at least as many vaginal girls as
oral ones. Yeah guys, quit being so obsessed, the girls won't
care…, until someone with a better schlong comes
along!
- Kim: "For all you women out there it's not the
size that counts, it's what he can do with it. My husband is
4.25" long and 4.5" around and he satisfies me fine.
So what's this talk about size!!!!!!!!"
If having fine satisfaction is enough for
her then that is fine with me. Maybe if she ever
experiences what a guy with eight inches by seven around can
do to her, she might be the one doing all the talk about
size.
Some women really don't care about
penis size
It is true, some women really don't give the least bit about
penis size. They usually don't care much about sex either. For
them "having sex" is not even the right phrase. They insist on
calling it "making love". To them making love is a whole complex
event of which sex is just a small portion. Moreover, during the few times
they are having sex, penetration is not that important to them.
The
comments below are from the same internet survey and I show them here to demonstrate
that these women are
looking for tenderness, love and spirituality. There is nothing
wrong with that, but they should not speak for the majority of women
who besides romance also enjoy sex, as much if not more as men do.
- Eddienet:
"More important than size or how you use it, is
love. I have had sex with and without love and I have to say that
when you really have strong feelings for your partner, the sex is
great and it has nothing to do with the size of body parts. And when
you consider that sex plays such a small part in long-term
relationships, size shouldn't matter at all. All that matters is
that you want to spend time together and share life's journey."
- Emerald:
"I think many women will agree that good sex has
very little to do with penetration. It has everything to do with
foreplay, intimate touching, some emotional link, and of course,
attraction. My favorite sex with men lasts at least an hour, and
involves very little penetration, and a smaller penis that doesn't
hurt!"
- JemRN:
"Let's hear three cheers for love and
tenderness, caring and sharing, and two souls who embrace each
other; then it's always great, whether it lasts an hour or a few
minutes and you're relaxed and comfy enough to wake up, smile at
that great guy you love and start all over again!"
- Elmyraduff:
"Ewww! Aren't we stretching things here? What
happened to all the stuff that goes beforehand? You know... flowers,
candy, the moonlight walks under the stars... Where's all the
romance?"
- Rosymare:
"As a woman, I don't think penis size matters a
bit. If a guy is a great kisser, sensual, caring, adventurous,
concerned with MY pleasure, everything will be great."
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