- If a small finger can make her climax, then penis size is
obviously of no importance.
This warped believe needs a little more attention since it is
quickly becoming the main defense for those who claim
that penis size is irrelevant for vaginal pleasure. It is
confusing to many men because they all have experienced how
women can climax by just the use of even one finger. So, a penis
is ok as long as it is as big as a finger right? Complete
nonsense. Many psychologist, sex therapist and so called experts
use this gross untruth in a sickening attempt to give the small
endowed man temporary relief from his agonizing problems. They
forget to mention that the reason a woman can climax with the
use of a small finger is because a finger has muscles and two
ninety-degree joints in it and you have complete control
over it. You move, slide, bend, swirl, thump, palpitate, shake,
flick and tickle it like you could never do with a penis and
this at any speed you want. The only thing your penis can do is
slide in and out at slightly different speeds, at different
angles and using less or more pressure against the walls. This
is exactly why larger penises cause more fun since at least they
reach more places and more spots at the same time. They also
have a longer stroke, meaning that a woman's sensitive spots
receive more and longer lasting pleasure on the same stroke.
Therefore, a longer penis can cause more variety in sensations
since the length of stroke is adjustable. A penis the length of
a finger can never cause these pleasures. As far as thickness is
concerned, by using a small finger you can simulate the pressure
sensations from a thick penis by quickly pressing and moving it
all around the walls of the vagina opening. You can do dozens of
different things with that little finger to make her climax that
you could never do with a penis, no matter its size.
However, most women agree that the feeling of being penetrated
by an average to large penis is always qualitatively superior
to the stimulation received from a finger, even if such
penetration at times doesn't cause orgasm.
- The size of the flaccid penis doesn't indicate the size of
- The erection is the great equalizer.
- Some men are growers, others are showers, once hard they are
all the same.
These three lies cover the same issue. They are created to give
hope to smaller endowed men so they can believe that the competition
with larger flaccid penises doesn't have bigger erect penises.
Although there are always exceptions, small flaccid penises will be
small when erect and large flaccid penises will be large when erect.
The "great equalizer" has become such a popular myth that it
deserves a special paragraph to explain the truth behind it (see
next page Flaccid Penis Size versus Erection).
- Forget the size issue, the most important sex organ is the
Yes, the most important sex organ is the brain since that's
where all the pleasure is processed and experienced. That counts
especially for women's pleasure caused by bigger penises!
- You are ok if you are between 4" and 7" long.
This is a cheap line because they try to make you believe that
within this range you will satisfy a woman. All they are saying is
that you are ok because there are many of these penises around.
- The clitoris is outside, the g-spot is two inch inside, so as
long as you have two inches length you are fine.
- A vagina has no pleasure nerves deeper than two inches inside.
- Women can't feel the difference between a long and a short
These three lies are the creation of those who probably don't
have more than two inches themselves, otherwise they would have
noticed how women react upon deep stimulation of the vagina. Even if
it was true that a vagina feels nothing past the first two inches,
longer would still be better because the way your penis stimulates
those first two inches of tissue by friction and pressure while
sliding over it. The longer your penis is, the longer your stroke,
the longer the stimulation of those first two inches.
- If women like a big penis it is only for psychological
This myth was invented by some sex therapists who are
probably hung like hamsters and who are really talking to themselves. It insults
women's sexuality and confuses the smaller endowed men who deep
inside know probably better than that.
- There is no such thing as a vaginal
orgasm or uterine orgasm.
Again, people who say this have never caused one either. I
cover this topic extensively on page 21, Some
Believe Vaginal Orgasm Is A Myth.
- Women appreciate oral sex more than penetration.
Once more, experts who tell you this lie probably have a tiny
penis themselves because a woman will usually prefer to have
her clitoris licked than being penetrated by a small penis. Some
women do have a true preference for oral sex however, regardless the
size of the penis, but often it might be because there is something
wrong with them either physically or mentally. It is comparable to a
man preferring to have only the tip of his penis nibbled instead of
enjoying the immersing feelings of dipping his shaft in a warm and
- Women want a man who is charming, loving and intelligent, they
don't care about penis size.
This is a perfect example of how people use a well known fact
and then extrapolate a lie out of it. Sure, women want a charming
man, but that has nothing to do with the way their vagina senses
stimulation. Saying this is insulting to women because it makes them
look like they can't enjoy sex as men can.
- Men who worry about their penis size are immature and
As explained on page 3 Why Do Men Obsess About Penis
Size?, it is in a man's nature to worry about it. Maybe
they could stop worrying if people stop telling them lies, so they
would know at least where they stand.
- Men with a big penis are lousy lovers.
Whatever it takes to make the smaller guy feel better. Who
knows, well-endowed men might even have better technique just because
they often have more experience with different women. But it is silly to
try figure out who has better technique. If a man is sexually
intelligent then he usually has good technique, whatever his size.
- Men with a big penis don't get hard
erections and women prefer to be penetrated by a hard small penis than
by a soft big one.
This lie is popular among some medical therapists as well as
among women comforting their small-endowed partners. There is no
good reason why a big penis should get less hard than a small one.
The only truth is that it takes a big penis longer to get hard. A
small one can probably reach maximum expansion with a few heart
pumps whereas a big one might need quite a bit more.
- Penises eight inches long are very
rare and penises nine inch long are almost non-existent.
If they are so rare then why is it that most women have seen even longer than
that, knowing that the average woman has slept with about 35 to
40 men by the age of 30.
- Penises six inches around are very
rare and penises seven inch around are almost non-existent.
These lies are mostly used by women to boost their boyfriends'
moral and to stop their worries about their average girth penis.
Again, if you are average or below average in girth, there is a
good chance that much thicker penises than that have invaded
- Very huge penises like twelve inch long and nine inch around
exist only in fantasies since a man would pass out from losing
blood from the brain.
This myth is popular among small-endowed guys. However, they do
exist and it is not unlikely that a girl has seen one already if
she has had more than one hundred sexual partners.
- The depth of a normal vagina is six inches, so any penis
longer than that usually causes pain.
Not true, when a vagina reaches its expanded state during
maximum excitement it often reaches seven to eight inches deep.
On top of that, the walls are quite stretchable and many women
can accommodate ten or more inches in length.
- Good sex has very little to do with penetration, but
everything with foreplay and intimate touching.
Try telling that to a girl you've been touching intimately for
an hour. She will be very frustrated if you don't penetrate her.
- Men with a big penis don't know anything about foreplay,
which is more important than penetration.
This goes along the previous line. Most women agree that both
are equally important. To say that hung guys don't know anything
about foreplay is silly. To say that foreplay is more important
than penetration is ignorant. Sometimes a woman cares more about
foreplay, other times she wants you to cut out the boring stuff
and begs you to get on with the real thing.
- Women prefer sensuality and intimacy above raw sex.
Yes women like intimacy. However, when they want sex, they want
sex and then they won't care about cuddling and snuggling up,
but want to feel heavy stimulation on the inside. Some women can
get quite verbal and direct during intercourse and are not shy
to demand heavy thrusting.
- Women who care about size are sluts.
Women who care about size are the ones who are honest and have
the guts to admit they like sex a lot.
- Women who enjoy big penises have a loose vagina.
This is one of the most heard lies you can come around and is
made up by some smaller endowed guys to justify their
incompetence in making women orgasm by penetration alone. Sure,
a woman who has a very loose vagina will need a very big penis
to be really satisfied, but it is not because some woman likes
penetration by a big penis that she automatically has a loose
vagina. Most vaginas can take a penis of eight inches
circumference as long as the woman is able to let her vagina
- A woman's vagina is a virtual space and will adapt to any
size penis and therefore she receives the same pleasure
regardless the size of the penis.
It is true that most vaginas can contract around even the
smallest penis, but the more it has to contract, the less
pleasure it will receive. The more it can relax, the more
pleasure it gets. Friction and pressure to the nerves inside the
vagina wall create pleasure. Many women are very responsive to
high pressure and stretching of these walls.
- A man with a large penis who has no clue to please a woman is
useless as a lover.
It is a silly remark because if this same man would have a small
penis he would be considered even more useless as a
lover. Any woman saying this to appease smaller endowed men are
actually creating the opposite effect on them. Having to choose
between a small endowed and a well endowed man, both without a
clue to please her, she would gladly choose for the big penis
- You were given the size you have for a reason, be happy with
what you have.
Another favorite line among certain sex therapists. It is like
telling somebody who was born poor that he should be happy with
what he has. Sure, if you have a small penis you have to live
with it, don't let it destroy your life. That doesn't mean you
have to be all happy about it and start jumping with joy about
how small your penis is.
- When women talk about their preference for big penises, they
only do so because it gives them some power over men, knowing
how sensitive the issue is to them.
Some people like to say this because they know men might accept
it as true, since the concept of women trying to overpower men
sounds believable. Men know how women sometimes enjoy having
power over them and that they do abuse the penis size
issue to have an edge. However, it is not the reason why women
care about big penises.
- Men with big penises don't last as long in bed as smaller
Complete nonsense, bigger size has nothing to do with less
stamina. Many women confirm that bigger penises often take longer
- It's a male thing only, a locker room thing.
Although men might be more obsessed by it, women are the ones
who care about it the most, since they are the ones being penetrated
- The big penises you see in porn movies are fake.
Women and experts alike will tell you this lie so you won't
believe big penises exist. Yes, the truly enormous penises like
eighteen inch long are fake. Some of the smaller ones are fake
as well, but just because it allows sleazy porn makers to film
amazing two minute lasting ejaculations by pumping fake semen
through them. Nevertheless, many of the big dongs you see in
porn are real. Why go through the hassle of faking them if there
are plenty of guys who are hugely equipped. Besides, most men
feel insulted of being taken for a fool with a lie like this,
since anyone can quite easily distinguish between the real and
the fake ones.
- The penis size issue is just as silly as the breast size
issue. Do you really believe a woman with big breasts is a
Another trick to make the smaller endowed men believe that their
worries are unfounded. It almost works for many of them because
they think, "Hey, although I like big breasts, they are
really not that important at all". Don't forget that
breasts are not responsible for the sensations your penis is
getting during intercourse. Your penis however is
responsible for her vaginal sensations. The breast
versus penis comparison is discussed in great detail earlier
- The proof that penis size is not important is that it doesn't
even appear on the list of ten most important qualities looked
for in a man.
Surveys show that penis size is not even on the top ten list of
most important qualities looked for in a man. So what? Experts
claim that this means women don't really care about size but of
course that is a dumb conclusion. Just ask a man to think about
a woman: he will think sex. So his top ten list will include
things like big breasts, nice butt, good in bed, etc. Ask a
woman to think about a man. She will think security. Only when
in heat she will think sex. When women were asked to think of
the most desired qualities in men, most of them were not horny.
In a neutral environment, they will associate a man with
feelings of security and comfort. Therefore, the top ten
qualities will reveal little of how they want their men to be
sexually. At the most, they will state "good in bed".
Actually, they initially care more about his financial status
than about his sexual capacities. Being a good kisser and dancer
is also more important than being hung. Now take this same woman
and put her in bed with a man she just spent a great evening
with. Do you still believe she cares so much about the way he
kisses? At this point she is just as sexually excited as the guy
is and she doesn't care that much anymore about his other
qualities. Her vagina is extremely sensitive and needs to be
penetrated and filled, just as the guy's penis needs to be
- Some smaller endowed
men believe size is not important since "they never had a
It's not because a woman doesn't complain to you that she is
happy with your size. It takes a bitch to flatly tell a man his penis is too small.
Instead, most girls won't complain to you but will tell their
future boyfriends about it. I had several girlfriends who told
me stories about how they had slept with guys with penises so
small that "she couldn't feel anything" or that
"he lost his condom inside me" or that "he was so
thin he felt like a wet noodle!" They all had felt embarrassed for their man
but had pretended to enjoy the sex. Only one girl confessed to me that she
first time her hand grabbed the terribly small penis of another
guy she dated. She told me she called him a freak and
ran away and that "he probably never dared to be with
another girl again, hahaha".
Flaccid penis size versus erection