Don't Count on
the Sex Experts Either
To Answer Your Penis Size Questions
all in your head!"
So, why not ask a doctor or
sex expert your penis size questions? The web contains many
advice boards where men can post questions about sexuality. I analyzed
the answers of many sex-advisors to a variety of penis size related questions.
The results are nothing short of shocking and expose a spineless and
deceptive attitude. Do not be fooled anymore by advice
from some of the so called sex-experts! They might have good things to
say about other sex topics, but when it comes to penis size almost none of them
dares to say it as it is.
is disturbing to see how so many
men are being lied to as soon as they pose a question about
penis size. They are often told that they suffer from perceived penile
inadequacy with the accent on perceived, meaning, "It's all in their
Troubled men ask two basic questions:
"Is my penis normal in size?"
"Is my penis size adequate to give
women sexual satisfaction?"
answer the first question with "Of course your penis is normal unless it is a
micro penis (one inch long erect)." According to them if you have
an erect penis 4 inch long and 1 inch wide than that is normal because
there are many men in the world like that, so you shouldn't worry
about it. To them normal means what happens a lot.
Practically everything is
normal just because it exists. True, research and surveys suggest
that around 2 to 3% of men are created that way. That means a
whopping 50 to 75 million guys in the world and yes that is a lot.
But does that make a man feel better if he is among them? Probably
not that much. They won't mention either that a few million men carry over 9 inch long by 2½ inch wide girl-splitters.
argue in the
defense of such therapists that the above questions don't make too
much sense if you take them literally. Normality for instance is
hard to describe. A normal penis would be one that falls within the
norms, but how do you define the norms? Anything that is more or
less common? And what is common? We can turn in circles forever
trying to define normality. Some medical therapists use this as a
way to quickly calm down worrying men by saying their small penis is
normal. After all, if its smaller size isn't caused by some
disease then it is a normal, healthy penis. Of course, big, small
and average penises are all normal penises according to such simple
Sex experts are either ignorant or cowardly
sex experts should
look beyond the actual question. If a guy asks "Is my five inch penis normal?" then it is either ignorant or cowardly to simply say "Sure it's normal, there are many like that... feel better now? Bye-bye, take care now!"
What these worried guys want to know is if
women perceive their size as normal or small, or better, as
adequate. Since nobody wants or dares to tell them the truth, they
keep on coming back with their worries over and over again until
they are being ridiculed by these same therapists for being so
obsessed with size. Wouldn't it be much better to calm their agony
by saying things as they are instead of feeding them prettified
The worst is when questioners are simply brushed off with
you guys could stop focusing on
your penis sizes, and instead work on developing
your skills and exchanging tips on touching,
kissing, caressing and lovemaking..."
"Stop worrying about the size of your penis and start concentrating on being a better lover! Why don't you learn how to be a good
kisser instead? And learn how to give great oral sex to your girl. She will love it!"
What a bunch of
Sure women love this stuff but practically all girls agree that even
great oral sex and the best finger work can never replace the
feeling of being well penetrated by a good size penis. Such answers only
confuse and cause frustration. It proves that these experts are mostly
experts in avoiding confrontation. Kissing and caressing is nice, but it won't help you if you are in need of some real answers.
biggest myth is probably the belief that the only important thing during
sexual intercourse is a man's technique and that his penis size is
irrelevant. Sure, girls enjoy a skilled
penetration by a normal size penis more than a muddled uncertain
attempt by a big one. However, these experts forget to mention that
these same girls might be in ecstasy when they have intercourse with
a seriously hung love-specialist.
It is such a popular myth that it has lead to a
series of cute sounding and easy to remember phrases for the smaller
endowed guys, so they can repeat these false truths to themselves to
- It ain't the meat, it's the motion!
- It don't mean a thing if you ain't got that swing!
- It's not what you've got, it's how you use it!
- It's not the size of the ship, it's the motion of the ocean!
- A little axe can cut big trees!
- It's not how deep you fish, it's how you wiggle your worm!
- It's not the size of the wand, it's the magician who waves it!
Examples of experts' free "help"